Women always go for the “bad boy.” There is certainly a lot of truth in that statement, whether we like to accept it or not.. Nice guys finish last is another common phrase full of too much truth.

If we are truly looking for a partner, in life, shouldn't we choose someone who is supportive, nurturing, and will cherish who we are? Does the phrase “bad boy” conjure up images of this type of support?

When we think of a life partner, the first thing that comes to most of our minds is trust. So, why then do we place such a high priority on superficial traits like beauty, height, or weight? And, why do we often select people who are mysterious, edgy, or even dangerous?

Is it self-sabotage? Is it thrill seeking behavior? It seems like we often desire to bring drama into our lives more than we desire inviting beauty. Why?

The next time you browse an Online Dating profile of a perspective match, give this a moment or two of thought. Make sure you are actually selecting someone with the kind of traits you want to invite into your life, and into your family's life. It might mean you need to take a second look at that person who might not currently be your perfect image of beauty or the person whose Online Dating profile might seem a little boring at first. But, ultimately, you might be very glad you did. You might connect with a partner you can truly trust, respect, admire, and love. We hope you do...

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